The Unmasked Webinar

Who is the victim now?

Dating feels broken. Men blame women. Women blame men. Both are exhausted. This webinar is a conversation about what happens when we stop pointing fingers and start getting curious.

Singapore 5PM, Berlin 11AM, UK 10AM, Da Nang 4PM, New York 5AM, Melbourne 7PM

Why This Webinar. Right Now.

Both men and women are stuck in a victim mindset. Men are told they have no power. Women are told they can't trust men. Both sides point at the other gender and say "look how much worse it is for us." And because both are insisting on being the victim, nobody is actually being heard.

The Menosphere creates content for desperate men saying women have all the advantage. Women see rage content saying men are toxic. Both sides are hardening. Both sides are tired.

And while we're stuck in this blame, nothing moves. Dating gets harder. We stop listening. We perform instead of connect. The more we do that, the more we believe the other gender is the enemy.

Men and women aren't enemies. They're just people stuck in their own trauma stories. Men trapped in stories about not being good enough. Women trapped in stories about not being able to trust.

The moment you stop blaming and start getting curious, everything shifts. The moment you see the other person as someone who's also struggling, also trying, also human, connection becomes possible again.

That's what this webinar is. A room where we stop the blame and start the conversation.

Stop Blaming

You'll understand why both genders are stuck pointing fingers. And more importantly, how to step out of that pattern. It's not about blame. It's about seeing clearly.

Learn Real Skills

Authentic Relating and Nonviolent Communication aren't theories. They're skills you'll practice in 90 minutes. Skills you can use on your next date. Tools for actual connection.

Be Yourself

No performance. No protecting. No games. This is a space where vulnerability is strength. Where the other gender isn't the enemy. They're a human being, just like you.

What People Say

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Chi Phan

"I had a wonderful workshop in authentic relating with Silja. Her superb professionalism, experience and sensitivity as a facilitator were only matched by her humour. She expertly navigated a huge group of strangers while staying at ease in her authenticity."

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D Chandon

"I attended one of Silja's free workshops in Vietnam. Without knowing what to expect, I arrived as a newcomer but left transformed. There were exercises between men and women that were deeply valuable and intensive."

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Roman Robroek

"I've been to several Authentic Relating 'game nights' that Silja facilitated. It's a very safe and fun way to connect with people on a deeper level. I can highly recommend anyone to go to one of her events."

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shan stride

"Highly highly recommend! Silja is an excellent facilitator who glows with purpose. The group environment she creates is casual, comfortable, warm, and very safe. I always leave with feelings of release and reflection."

Hi. I'm Silja.

Since 2022 I've run over 100 workshops across six countries. I watch strangers move from small talk to something real. I'm a certified Embodiment Coach and Authentic Relating facilitator.

I'm also 37, been single for a long time, and genuinely tired of how we're dating right now.

I don't have all the answers. I have real questions. I have a lot of experience watching people connect and fail to connect. And I have a belief that something can shift.

I want to create spaces where we stop blaming each other and start getting curious again. Where the other gender is seen as an ally, not an enemy. Where people can show up authentically on dates and have real experiences.

That's what this is.

90 Minutes. Two Genders. No Blame.

Just real people getting curious about what dating could be if we stopped fighting and started listening.

FAQ

Is this speed dating?

No. This is a webinar. We're not matching people. We're teaching dialogue skills and understanding.

Is this only for straight people?

Yes. As a straight woman, I create spaces for people with similar experiences. LGBTQ+ spaces should be facilitated by LGBTQ+ people.

How vulnerable do I have to be?

You choose. This is a supportive space. You share only what feels right for you.

Why is it free?

I believe this conversation matters and should be accessible. This is my gift to you.

What's the meeting ID?

841 6921 3243. You'll get all details when you register.