Tired of feeling lonely in a city full of people?
A space where men and women remember what real connection feels like, face to face, without the apps.
IS THIS FOR YOU?
This space is for you if you:
Are tired of swiping through tourists and surface connections that fizzle in a week
Much prefer meeting people face to face but don't know where to start
Want to learn how to have deeper conversations rather than just sticking to superficial chat
Are done with always performing and want to show up as you actually are
Struggle to trust (especially after disappointing dates) and want to practice opening up safely
Want to discover something new about yourself, not just "find a partner"
Hi, I´m Silja
With my workshops, podcast, and match making, I help you:
Stop wasting time on surface connections and learn how to have deeper conversations that actually matter
Practice real human-to-human connection with men and women in a safe space, no swiping, no scripts, no performance required
Discover something new about yourself while learning to express what you want authentically, set boundaries, and navigate intimacy without the fear
Understand what it means to be a man or woman in today's dating culture and what you actually want beyond what the apps tell you to want
I create spaces where men and women remember how to connect.
The Connection Enthusiast Podcast
Real talk about dating, relating, and all the messy stuff in between.
For everyone tired of performing and ready to figure out what real connection actually feels like, awkward moments included.
THE WORKSHOPS
"Unmask. | Authentic Relating Game Night"
Not a dating event. Not therapy. Not another night of performing and making jokes while feeling nothing.
For everyone who's so sick of hookup culture, tired of small talk, and ready to just... let it unfold naturally.
No expectations. Just being.
→ See upcoming sessions
THE NEWSLETTER
Real stories about connection, dating, and all the awkward stuff in between.
Equal parts recognition, humor, and "oh shit, that's me."
No performance required, just honest storytelling.
→ Sign up for the next one
WHAT PEOPLE DISCOVER HERE
"I learned more about myself in 2 hours than in months of therapy"
These workshops help you see your patterns while dating—without judgment, just awareness.
"I remembered what real connection feels like"
Not the dopamine hit of a match. Not the anxiety of wondering if they'll text back. Just... realness.
"I finally learned how to set boundaries without feeling guilty"
Practice saying what you want, authentically, without apology. It's scary. And freeing.
"As a nomad, this gave me what I was missing"
Genuine connections beyond casual swiping. People who get it. Community that travels with you.
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