Unmasked.

Workshops where men and women remember how to connect, authentically, without the apps, without the performance.

Why these spaces are needed right now

Dating feels broken.

You swipe through hundreds of profiles but feel lonelier than ever. You go on dates but end up performing instead of connecting. You want something real, but the apps have trained us all to be disposable.

And it's not just the apps.

Somewhere along the way, we forgot how to relate to each other without scripts. How to have deeper conversations instead of sticking to small talk. How to express what we actually want without fear of being "too much" or "not enough."

The result?

Men and women are lonely in cities full of people
We talk about each other online but rarely with each other in real life
Trust feels impossible after too many disappointing dates
We're all performing, and nobody feels seen

This isn't sustainable. And you know it.

That's why these workshops exist.

Unmask is a space where you can stop performing and start being honest.

It's not a dating event. It's not therapy. It's not another night of forced networking.

It's practice.

Practice for:

Having real conversations with the opposite sex—without scripts, without the fear
Learning what you actually want (not what the apps tell you to want)
Expressing yourself honestly—even when it's uncomfortable
Setting boundaries without guilt
Trusting again, slowly, in a space that's actually safe

These workshops use Authentic Relating—a practice that helps you connect genuinely by learning to be honest about what you're feeling in the moment.

No masks. No fixing. No pretending everything is fine when it's not.

Just real human-to-human connection.

What is Authentic Relating?

Authentic Relating is a practice of learning to be real with others and with yourself.

It's not about being vulnerable for vulnerability's sake. It's about learning to:

Notice what you're actually feeling (instead of what you think you should feel)
Express it honestly (without apologizing for existing)
Listen deeply to others (not just waiting for your turn to talk)
Stay present even when things get uncomfortable

In these workshops, we use games and exercises that make this practice playful, not painful.

You won't sit in a circle sharing trauma. You won't be forced to hug strangers. You won't be asked to "just open up."

Instead, you'll practice in real-time:

What it feels like to be seen for who you actually are
How to navigate attraction, boundaries, and rejection, in your body, not just in your head
What happens when you stop trying to get it right and just... let it unfold

What to expect at a workshop

A typical Unmask workshop is 2.5 - 3 hours of guided connection, laughter, and real moments.

Here's how it works:

→ We start by creating safety
You'll learn the ground rules—what's okay, what's not, and how to take care of yourself if things feel like too much.

→ Then we play
Through Authentic Relating games and exercises, you'll practice expressing what you want, listening deeply, and being honest about what you're feeling—all in real-time with real people.

→ You'll have real conversations
Not small talk. Not networking. Just honest exchanges with men and women who are also tired of performing and ready to try something different.

→ You'll discover patterns
Many people leave saying things like: "I learned more about myself in 2 hours than in months of therapy." That's because you're not just talking about your patterns—you're seeing them happen, in real-time, with real people.

→ And you'll leave with tools
Practical exercises you can use in your daily life. Insights you can take on dates. A clearer sense of what you actually want (not what you think you should want

Why now?

Because waiting for dating culture to fix itself isn't working.

The apps aren't getting better. The loneliness isn't going away. And pretending you're fine with surface connections when you're actually exhausted—that's not sustainable.

You deserve:

To feel seen by people who actually get it
To practice being real without the fear of being "too much"
To discover what connection feels like when it's not filtered through a screen
To learn how to trust again, slowly, in a space that's actually safe

These workshops are happening both online and in person because the need is global—and you shouldn't have to wait until you're in the "right city" to experience real connection.

The next workshop might be:

Online (so nomads and travelers can join from anywhere)
In your city (check upcoming events below)
Or you can bring it to your community (contact me about hosting)

Frequently Asked Questions

No. I deliberately don't position this as a dating event. I'm not a relationship coach or sex coach. I'm an embodiment coach and Authentic Relating facilitator. My passion is creating spaces for connection.
No. I've been to tantric dating events myself and found them... cringy. That's not the vibe here. This is about authentic connection and having fun while doing it, not performative spirituality.
No nudity—, that's explicitly not allowed.

My facilitation style is based on connection through conversation and presence. If physical closeness is mutually desired by two people, that's welcome, but most exercises are non-physical.
I offer a low-key matchmaking service where I can connect two interested people after the event for a small fee. But there's no pressure, you can also just exchange contact info on your own.
Yes. As a straight woman myself, I find it easier to create spaces for people with similar experiences. I believe LGBTQ+ spaces should be held and facilitated by LGBTQ+ people, there's simply more understanding and empathy that way.
Everyone is welcome who identifies as a man or woman and is heterosexual. Whether you're cisgender or transgender doesn't matter, what matters is how you identify now.
As vulnerable, honest, and authentic as you want to be. There's no expectation from me about who you should be. You're here for yourself, not for anyone else.
Honestly?
I want to understand what you're struggling with, what makes dating feel impossible, what you wish someone would finally address, what keeps you up at night when you think about connection.
Your registration answers help me gather that information. Your experience in the workshop shows me what actually works. And yes, your email goes on my list (which you can leave anytime).
The unromantic truth: I'm collecting data so I can build something bigger—something that actually helps people navigate the frustration and loneliness of modern dating.
But I can't do that without understanding you first. So: free workshop, honest feedback, and hopefully you get something valuable in return.
Yes. Many participants are travelers tired of swiping through tourists and want genuine connections whilst on the move. This workshop gives you practice in connecting authentically—skills that travel with you.
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